{"id":113,"date":"2018-06-27T15:22:51","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T13:22:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demonia.flow.ovh\/debuter-bdsm\/"},"modified":"2025-02-06T16:06:14","modified_gmt":"2025-02-06T16:06:14","slug":"debuter-bdsm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.demonia.com\/debuter-bdsm\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00e9buter en douceur dans le BDSM"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><strong><br \/>\nComment d\u00e9buter dans le BDSM\u00a0? <\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Le fantasme d\u2019une pratique BDSM (bondage, domination, sadomasochisme) fait peur. On frissonne \u00e0 l\u2019id\u00e9e de la douleur, du c\u00f4t\u00e9 sordide, de notre incapacit\u00e9 au l\u00e2cher-prise, la peur de franchir une limite irr\u00e9versible, le ridicule de soumettre quelqu\u2019un\u2026 L\u2019imaginaire collectif accole au BDSM un univers sombre et mena\u00e7ant. Pourtant, nombreux sont les couples (l\u00e9gitimes ou non, h\u00e9t\u00e9ro ou homo, libertins ou non) \u00e0 fantasmer sur une petite s\u00e9ance de domination. <strong>\u00catre domin\u00e9 est un fantasme r\u00e9current<\/strong>, une excitation collective qui anime les hommes mais aussi les femmes. On peut consid\u00e9rer, non sans mal, que c\u2019est le livre les 50 nuances de Grey qui a propuls\u00e9 sur le devant de la sc\u00e8ne \u00e9rotique, un nouveau jeu coquin\u00a0: le BDSM.<\/p>\n<p>Le BDSM c\u2019est s\u2019offrir une parenth\u00e8se qui peut m\u00e9tamorphoser votre couple, le rapport \u00e0 votre corps, vous offrir une excitation ultime. Une s\u00e9ance de BDSM est bien plus marquante (et nous ne parlons pas des marques des accessoires comme un fouet ou un b\u00e2illon) que l\u2019utilisation d\u2019un sextoy devenu presque banale. Oui, car si notre soci\u00e9t\u00e9 est de plus en plus ouverte sur l\u2019utilisation d\u2019un godemichet, de menottes, de boules de geisha ou d\u2019un plug anal, elle s\u2019offusque devant quelques fess\u00e9es et autres punitions bien maitris\u00e9es. Pourtant, j\u2019entends d\u2019ici le claquement de l\u2019\u00e9lastique de quelques petites culottes et autres fermoirs de ceinture. <strong>Le BDSM attire et s\u00e9duit, mais par quoi d\u00e9buter quand on est totalement novice ? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img class=\\\" wp-image-119 aligncenter\\\" src=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/pratiques-BDSM\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/06\/IMG_2211.jpg\\\" alt=\\\"\\\" width=\\\"600\\\" height=\\\"372\\\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><strong>Quelques r\u00e8gles de base pour se lancer dans le BDSM <\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Le mot d\u2019ordre est de faire au plus simple afin de commencer soft dans le hard. On n\u2019est pas oblig\u00e9 de d\u00e9buter par un vrai ligotage, la r\u00e9daction compl\u00e8te de r\u00e8gles de soumission ou de domination. Vous pouvez d\u00e9buter avec des <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/accessoires_sm-c-3\\\"><strong>accessoires BDSM simples<\/strong><\/a> et surtout pas effrayants. Par exemple, <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/baillons-c-11\\\"><strong>le baillon<\/strong><\/a> ou <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/baillon-cuir-noir-boule-noire-p-7638\\\"><strong>le baillon \u00e0 boule<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/collier-sm-c-73\\\"><strong>un collier<\/strong><\/a>, <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/bandeaux-masques-c-13\\\"><strong>des bandeaux<\/strong><\/a> ou autres masques pour priver votre partenaire de ses sens, des bougies ou le plus classique une lingerie sexy (jarretelles, cuir\u2026) \u2026 peuvent cr\u00e9er l\u2019ambiance de d\u00e9part dans lequel vous plongerez votre partenaire pour le faire fantasmer. Ensuite, il faut aussi mettre en place une forme d\u2019attitude. Les caresses, les p\u00e9n\u00e9trations ne seront pas les m\u00eames. Puis, il faut finir par d\u00e9terminer le r\u00f4le de chacun\u00a0: maitresse, soumise, esclave, dominateur \u2026 chacun son petit nom et que le jeu d\u00e9bute dans l\u2019intimit\u00e9 feutr\u00e9e de votre appartement.<\/p>\n<p>Et si tous ces jouets \u00e9rotiques ne vous inspirent pas pour d\u00e9buter le BDSM, un bon vieux jeu de r\u00f4le sera le meilleur des commencements, un simple \u00ab\u00a0ne bouge pas\u00a0\u00bb viendra combler les plus frileux, un pincement de t\u00e9tons \u00e9moustillera votre partenaire, <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/menottes-bdsm-c-206\\\"><strong>attacher un poignet<\/strong><\/a> pourra r\u00e9v\u00e9ler la dominatrice ou le dominateur qui est en vous. N\u2019oubliez pas que l\u2019\u00e9rotisme des pratiques BDSM est avant tout dans la t\u00eate et pas tant dans l\u2019accessoire \u00e9rotique.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img class=\\\"size-full wp-image-120 aligncenter\\\" src=\\\"https:\/\/www.demonia.com\/pratiques-BDSM\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/3\/2018\/06\/IMG_2212.jpg\\\" alt=\\\"\\\" width=\\\"800\\\" height=\\\"460\\\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comment d\u00e9buter dans le BDSM\u00a0? Le fantasme d\u2019une pratique BDSM (bondage, domination, sadomasochisme) fait peur. 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