Today, let’s take a look at bondage with a guide on how to use handcuffs during BDSM sessions! Handcuffs are the most popular accessory among SM practices. They’re a must-have in your SM toy box.
BDSM Handcuffs: a must-have
We love that they can be used by everyone: beginners or experienced. Restraint is also a way to spice up your sex life or to gently start exploring BDSM. We appreciate their discretion: you can take them anywhere by tucking them into your clothes for weekends or outings.
Handcuffs come in various designs to suit everyone. Indeed, there are several types of handcuffs. From simple police-style cuffs for spicy role-playing games to the more comfortable ones with fleece lining. For the more imaginative, we love spherical, crossed metal handcuffs.
It’s an accessory that will give you the freedom to imagine different scenarios. After properly setting each other’s boundaries, take the plunge and surprise your partner with this practical item.
There are several ways to tie up your partner and gain total control over him. Your partner will decide to let go. Dèmonia guides you through simple ways to adopt BDSM handcuffs in your SM play.
How to use BDSM handcuffs
What we love about handcuffs is how easy they are to use. You don’t need to be an expert in the field to be tied, or tied up. They’re also suitable for all body shapes, thanks to their adjustable strap. So there’s no need to hesitate!
Handcuffing your partner, hands behind their back
Imagine your partner under your control, kneeling? Their hands are cuffed behind their back, leaving their body completely at your mercy…
Their movements are more restricted in this position. Play with other BDSM accessories, such as low-temperature candles or nipple clamps. Lying on their stomach, your partner awaits a spanking or a sharp paddle strike.
For the more timid, no need to worry: play with control by asking them to kneel or bend down. And why not try an oral practice?
Hands cuffed above the head
When your partner has her arms cuffed above her head, this creates a particularly vulnerable posture. The body is captivatingly exposed for games of domination and submission. Your partner’s hands are above her head and tied to a bed or high attachment point. The whole body is under your total control, and your partner’s movements are more restricted.
It’s up to you to play with the SM accessories you’ll find at the Demonia Boutique. Take this time to find your partner’s undiscovered erogenous zones, while her hands are handcuffed.
Adopt handcuffs for sexual role-playing
Handcuffs are a must-have accessory for spicing up sexual role-play and injecting a touch of excitement into your intimate moments. They embody both control and submission, two essential elements for creating an electrifying dynamic between partners.
Imagine a captivating scenario where an intrepid policeman catches a wayward criminal. He subdues him with a pair of metal handcuffs that snap firmly around his wrists. This simple gesture is enough to create a deliciously palpable tension, blending authority and vulnerability.
In another register, handcuffs can turn a partner into a powerless spectator, tied to a chair. With his hands trapped, he is unable to touch or resist. Meanwhile, the other is having fun provoking him, putting on a daring erotic show.
This sexual role-play plays on the contrast between freedom and constraint. Forced immobility intensifies every sensation, every look, every gesture, making the experience as playful as it is sensual.
Versatile and emblematic, handcuffs adapt to a multitude of scenarios, from the gentlest to the most daring. They embody an invitation to explore, to go beyond the limits of everyday life and plunge into a universe of shared fantasies.
Combine BDSM handcuffs with other restraint accessories
Dèmonia genuine leather handcuffs come in the form of bracelets. This shape gives free rein to your imagination as to how they can be used. Choose a short or long chain to link them together. A carabiner is perfect for increasing restraint and freedom of movement, thanks to its small size.
To reinforce your partner’s restraint, opt for Dèmonia’s restraint packs. Comprising a pair of handcuffs, anklets and a collar, they enable you to bind your partner’s limbs together. Add a cross strap to bind hands and ankles, or chains with three snap hooks.
You can attach the wrists to a collar with a chain, reinforcing the restraint just as well.
Combine handcuffs with blindfolds, depriving your partner of two of her senses during erotic play.
Handcuffs and safety
While handcuffs may seem like a simple accessory, safety is not to be taken lightly. Just like any other BDSM practice, it’s essential to talk to your partner about mutual limits. Don’t forget a safe word to stop the game immediately.
Handcuffs should not be too tight around the wrists. Make sure you leave one or two fingers showing. Handcuffs that are too tight are dangerous for blood circulation.
Take your time, and don’t get into too much BDSM play right away. Start slowly, so that you can adapt to each other’s handcuffs and their advantages.
