What is genital torture in BDSM?
Genital torture in BDSM is a practice in which pain and discomfort are applied to the genitals. Genital torture includes CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) for men and Pussy Torture for women.
As part of a dominant/submissive dynamic, it amplifies submission, intensifies pleasure and pushes back sensory limits. Done well, it can be a deeply exciting and rewarding experience.
Genital Toture: A practice of pleasure and submission
This practice is far from being a simple form of suffering. Genital torture is part of a framework in which pain becomes an amplifier of pleasure. Some techniques allow you to play with frustration. Others are used to test the submissive’s resistance, while some aim to provoke more powerful and uncontrollable orgasms.
It can be used as part of BDSM sexual punishment practices.
The history and evolution of erotic genital torture
Once used as a punishment in certain cultures, it has been reappropriated in modern BDSM as a form of body exploration and extreme pleasure. Today, it is governed by strict rules designed to ensure that the practice is safe and consensual.
Why practice intimate torture?
Intensified sensations
When controlled and desired, pain can be a powerful tool for increasing sexual pleasure tenfold. By applying stimulation to the erogenous zones, the sensations become stronger, the nerves more reactive, and the orgasm more intense.
Exploring submission and control
In a BDSM dynamic, genital torture is used to reinforce submission and domination. The dominant tests the limits of the submissive, while the latter gives himself or herself fully to his or her master or mistress.
The psychological and erotic benefits of CBT
Practitioners often describe an intense mental release, due to the rush of adrenaline and endorphins. Some advanced BDSM CBT techniques even amplify the connection between partners and intensify pleasure. Torture of the private parts is a notable aspect of sado masochism.
Indispensable accessories for genital torture
Nipple clamps and lip clamps: how to choose?
Nipple clamps are essential tools for torturing the private parts. They apply progressive pressure that stimulates the nerves and intensifies the sensations. There are several types:
- Classic nipple clamps: Adjustable, they allow you to control the pressure applied.
- Japanese or crocodile clamps: More intense, they are tighter and can be connected by a chain.
- Labia and clitoris clamps: Specially designed for torturing the female genitals. They increase the sensitivity of these areas by subjecting them to prolonged compression.
How do I choose? For a first try, we recommend models with adjustable pressure. Those who prefer more extreme pain can opt for more aggressive or weighted versions.
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Cock rings and chastity cages: pain and frustration
Cock rings and chastity cages are essential for CBT (Cock and Ball Torture). These devices restrict blood flow and deprive pleasure, creating intense frustration and heightened sensitivity.
- Tight cock rings: These maintain a prolonged erection, which is often painful when worn for long periods. Some models are adjustable, others fixed for a more radical effect. There is also a range of electric cock rings.
- Chastity cages: Prevent any erection or stimulation of the penis. They can be worn for hours or days on end, increasing submission and dependence on the dominant.
How do you choose your level of restriction? It all depends on experience and the desired effect. A beginner might opt for a soft silicone cage, while an advanced practitioner might choose a more restrictive metal version.
Electrostimulation and electric shocks: for whom and how?
Electrostimulation is a technique that involves sending controlled electric shocks to the genitals. It is used to torture the penis and testicles as well as the vulva and clitoris. Itprovides intense stimulation and a surge of pleasure mixed with pain.
- Contact electrodes: Placed on the penis, testicles or clitoris, they deliver electrical impulses of adjustable intensity.
- Electric rings: Placed around the penis or testicles, these send out targeted shocks that increase tension and arousal.
- Vaginal or anal probes: Used to intensify internal stimulation, they add an extra dimension of control.
How do you combine electrostimulation and BDSM? A good stimulator should allow you to adjust the intensity and frequency of the shocks to suit the submissive’s level. The best accessories for intensifying BDSM pleasure offer several modes and allow you to experiment between pain and excitement.
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Compression and crushing: intense pressure on the genitals
Compression is one of the most intense CBT practices. It involves applying extreme pressure to the penis and testicles to cause a mixture of pain and sensory deprivation.
- Compression plates: These devices crush the testicles in a controlled manner, with adjustable pressure.
- Cock and Ball Press: A tool designed to compress the testicles, gradually increasing pain.
- Tightening rings and bands: These prevent blood circulation, creating a sensation of strangulation and amplifying the pain.
What are the risks? Overly prolonged compression can cause irreversible damage. It’s crucial to use quality accessories and respect the body’s signals.
Spanking and beating: punishment and genital torture
Beating the genitals is a radical method of torture, used for both CBT and female genital torture.
- Spankings and hand slaps: Applied directly to the testicles or vulva, they trigger sharp, immediate pain.
- Use of objects: Whips, riding crops, paddles or wooden rulers are used to hit the private parts and accentuate the pain.
- Progressive method: Increasing intensity allows you to test your submissive’s tolerance and gradually increase the pain without danger.
How to hit safely? Avoid excessive blows to the testicles, which can cause internal trauma. To maximise pleasure, alternate between pain and stimulation when torturing the female parts.
Hot wax and hot/cold play: amplify the sensations
Using hot wax and ice cubes creates contrasting stimulation, playing on the thermal shock to intensify sensations.
- Hot wax: poured over the testicles, penis or vulva, it causes a temporary burn, followed by a peak of extreme sensitivity.
- Ice cubes and cold baths: Applied just after exposure to heat, they tighten the pores and amplify the pain.
- Alternating hot and cold: A particularly effective method for increasing nerve sensitivity and prolonging arousal.
What are the risks? It’s vital to use a wax that’s suitable for the body (low melting point). Remember to avoid prolonged exposure to cold to avoid causing lasting numbness.
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How can I practise safely?
Golden rules to avoid injury
Safety and pleasure in genital torture go hand in hand. It is essential to respect the body’s limits and avoid any prolonged pressure on sensitive tissues.
Communication and consent in BDSM
No session should begin without a clear safe word, allowing you to stop immediately in the event of discomfort or danger. Consent and communication are the basis of all safe BDSM practices.
Signs to look out for to stop in time
Pain that is too intense, a feeling of numbness or worrying colour changes require serious attention. What are the risks of genital torture? Lack of caution can lead to lasting injury.
Where can I buy the best BDSM genital torture accessories?
Why choose quality equipment?
Not all BDSM accessories are equal. The wrong choice can damage the experience and even lead to health risks. The materials used must be safe, resistant and specially designed for these extreme practices.
Discover Dèmonia’s special BDSM collection!
At Dèmonia, you’ll find the ultimate shopping guide for erotic pain accessories. Are you looking for clamps, cock rings, chastity cages or electro-stimulation equipment?
Buying guide: how to choose according to your level of experience?
How do you choose the right BDSM accessories for your level of experience? Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced enthusiast, every BDSM practice requires equipment that’s adapted to your level. For a first initiation, it’s best to opt for adjustable accessories and moderate sensations. Experienced players, on the other hand, can explore more extreme tools, such as high-intensity electrical stimulators or long-lasting chastity cages.
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Genital torture in BDSM is a practice where pleasure and pain meet to create intense and unforgettable experiences. By using the right accessories and complying with safety rules, everyone can confidently push their own limits.
Whether you’re looking for discipline, sensory exploration or intensified pleasure, this practice opens doors to a liberated, taboo-free sexuality.
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