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BDSM necklace

The BDSM accessory that symbolizes devotion

Discover without further delay a large choice of bdsm necklaces, also called chokers. Your sexual relationships will take a whole new turn thanks to this submission accessory that formalizes the relationship between the dominant and the dominated.

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Introducing SM choker in your couple thanks to Demonia


You have established a relationship of trust within your couple and you want to spice up your lovemaking? It is true that bondage can be an interesting solution for people who do not want to be satisfied with the so-called classic sexual practices. In this case, BDSM opens its doors to you, but you still need to know the codes. Be careful, it is a practice that some people integrate seriously in their daily life. If you want it to remain occasional, for recreational purposes to make a night more torrid from time to time, you also have the right. In reality, everyone is free to do whatever they want, with whomever they want, as long as the wishes of each partner are respected. Generally speaking, the choker is one of the accessories that lovers turn to when they are already a little familiar with bondage. You may already have a pair of handcuffs in your bedside table drawer. Then take a one-way ticket to domination games by investing in a BDSM necklace! This accessory, which is placed around the neck, is a strong symbol for bondage enthusiasts. It is a real marker of the master-slave relationship. Each partner sees it as a strong image, the submissive who receives the choker from his mistress or his master is completely committed to this relationship of domination. Considering buying a choker is a sign of trust in your sexual partner. Talk to each other and choose the model that suits your wildest fantasies in our store. The simple fact of discussing it will already raise the temperature!

Discover the different types of BDSM necklaces


Our store Dèmonia offers different types of BDSM necklaces. But before making your choice, it is important to understand some specificities about bondage. You will see that depending on the type of choker, the uses will not necessarily be the same. However, most chokers are designed by manufacturers to receive other accessories such as chains. Thus, you will find collars with a large main metal ring or several small rings spread around the neck. We let you imagine the possibilities of play..
But we are not there yet. For the moment, it's about seeing the types of chokers that exist. The bondage enthusiasts are sometimes ready to display in public this relationship of domination/submission which exists between them. The fetishists then wear a choker which can pass unnoticed, because it remains rather fine, but it has nevertheless a strong significance. It is the symbol of their practice and their playing conditions. It is then called a necklace of consideration or day. In our online store, you will find mainly elements for the game itself. These accessories are more conspicuous and are equipped with rings to accommodate the various elements that will be used to set up the scenarios of your sex romp. In this case, leashes, spreader bars and nippleclamps or handcuffs are welcome to stimulate the libido. The neck becomes a support to attach various accessories to take control over the dominated.
There are still other chokers with strong symbolism, such as the training necklace, belonging or protection. Once you have bought your jewel, you can choose the meaning that suits you best for your practice.

Choose the right material for your SM necklace

To choose the right domination jewelry, you have to look at the material of it. Most brands sell necklaces in leather or imitation leather. This is justified by the fact that it is a resistant material. The fetishists can put the strength they want, the material will not be damaged and will not move with time. This advantage also becomes a disadvantage for some people. The leather BDSM collar can be a deterrent to beginners who find it lacking in flexibility. It is then necessary to ask yourself what degree of comfort you are looking for. Are you not afraid of rigidity? Invest in a leather accessory, which will still be able to relax over time. Whether you choose a neck brace or a choker, this material will not disappoint you if you are looking for solidity.
When choosing the material, also think about the cleaning step! Often forgotten, it is however the essential stage which follows your sexual games. Bondage accessories can be maintained and it is advisable to waterproof your leather jewelry to preserve the material. The leather is also nourished, even if it is in imitation. It will be enough simply to make it dry thereafter before being able to quickly use it again.
The alternative to leather jewelry is stainless metal. It is even easier to clean and will stand the test of time (and your games). So, when choosing a good choker, you should think about comfort first, unless you are looking for a rough material, and its ease of maintenance. The more you will manage to take care of your bondage accessories, the more they will be faithful to you for many years.

Knowing how to take the measurements of your choker


The success of bondage sex games depends partly on the measurements of the accessories. This is even more true for the collar. This one must be perfectly adapted to the neck of the passive, if not this last one risks to spend a bad moment. If the jewel is too wide, the dominated will not feel all the force of the gestures of his master. On the other hand, if the collar is too tight, the dominated one risks to hurt himself. The pressure should not be too strong at the throat, but if you like it, you must be sure to be able to control it. To find the right jewelry for the dominate's neck on the Demonia store, you need to take measurements. Using a tape measure, the circumference of the neck should be measured. The tape measure should not be placed too high, ideally at the thickest part of the neck, just a few centimeters above the collarbone.
Once you have determined the size, simply consult the product sheet of the model that attracts you. We have taken care to list all the characteristics of each necklace. Thanks to the indications such as the minimum and maximum neck size, you will know if this accessory is made for you. Also, don't forget to check how the necklace closes. Some models come with a lock system with a padlock or a code lock. Others can be adjusted with straps. No detail should escape you and these elements are determining for the good progress of your games.

Check the attachment points of your SM jewelry before buying from Demonia

The different models of chokers offered by our Demonia store differ in their attachment points. Indeed, beyond the aesthetics of these accessories that can already attract you, it is the possibilities of games they offer that will call you. In the world of bondage, neck jewelry is a symbol of ultimate control. In order to effectively block the submissive's movements or force them to do things, you need to be able to hold them. Ties are then the perfect accessories for your bondage games. Some chokers have a large ring that sits on the front. Other jewelry has several and even comes with bells. These are used to warn the master when his submissive is too unruly. A correction is then necessary because the orders were not respected..
The D or O rings are useful to attach a leash or a harness. This is where the real work begins. Once the submissive wears his jewelry around his neck and his master adds punishing accessories, the power relationship is established. The dominant then has the option of tying this chain to a specific area of the room, again to restrict the submissive's movements. He can also force his submissive to put himself in a particular position.
Beginners can purchase a piece of jewelry with a single metal ring on the front. They can then become familiar with the object and will be able to project themselves into other situations as the fetish sessions progress. They will then be able to move on to chokers that have multiple rings and experiment with new domination games. Always be sure to count the number of fasteners present on an SM jewel. Ideally, you should have different models with varying numbers of metal fasteners.

How to use the BDSM necklace


How to use a BDSM necklace once it has arrived at the recipient's home? This jewel is just waiting for one thing, to be used during your next play session. It doesn't matter if your gestures are hesitant during the first times. It is better to take the time to do things right in order to attach the choker correctly. Your partner's comfort is at stake. Even if he chooses to be submissive, he should not suffer while wearing it. Agree together on the conditions of use of the object. As with any bondage practice, communication should be at the heart of everything. If you are in the dominant posture, always ask your partner if the collar is not overly tight. If you've chosen to take on the role of the submissive, don't be afraid to say if you're uncomfortable because you feel oppressed. Fetishists recommend that you hold your neck straight when you put on the collar. The submissive must be able to breathe and swallow properly. The trick to finding out if the jewel is not too tight is to try to put one or two fingers underneath. The space available should simply allow his fingers to move without problem, in this case, the necklace is adjusted properly.
Everyone feels comfortable and confident? Your submission game can begin. Also keep in mind the code names and other safewords that you have chosen beforehand in case of a slip up. The submissive must be able to say stop at any time and demand the removal of his collar if he feels the need.