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Bondage tape : what is it ?

Bondage tape is a BSDM soft tool derived from bondage. It is a roll of PVC film, also called Pleasure Tape.

This tape can be used to immobilize wrists, ankles, breasts... But also to gag, dress or even mummify.

There are many other BDSM accessories to tie up, including ropes and shibari, handcuffs, straps and chains, restraint kits or the spreader bar. Tape, on the other hand, appeals to beginners for its ease of use. Accessible while being exciting, it presents no danger since the film adheres only on itself.

The word "bondage" has its origin in the Anglo-Latin term bondagium, referring to the state of slavery and the fact of being a serf. This practice invites to tie up his partner with the help of different tools in an erotic goal.

It is an opportunity to stage an S&M session by immobilizing the other person to inflict various torments, such as caresses and kisses to which he or she will not be able to respond, or penetration with a penis or a sextoy.

What is BDSM?

BDSM derives its name from several erotic and sexual practices that can be traced back to at least ancient Greece. It consists of several letters:

• B and D refer to Bondage and Discipline. With the immobilization of his partner, the idea is to establish a pattern of rules to follow under penalty of punishment. Bondage is indeed one of the main practices of BDSM and includes a wide range of accessories to restrain his lover.
• The S and M form the famous SM of Sado-Masochist, for the pleasure of inflicting and experiencing pain. These terms come from the name of the Marquis de Sade and the writer-historian Leopold von Sacher-Masoch.
• The D and S are also associated with Domination and Submission, which is the role division most often seen in BDSM relationships. One of the partners plays the authority figure, giving orders and instructions, while the other obeys him and gives himself up to him body and soul, the time of a session.

The constraint is therefore very common in SM and BDSM games. Beyond the possibility of freeing the body and mind of the submissive, who offers herself totally to the will of her dominant, it reinforces the bonds of trust within the couple.

The feeling of abandonment of the submissive and the feeling of omnipotence of the dominant are only possible in a healthy and balanced relationship, where both parties feel in full confidence.

The general public sometimes has a biased view of these practices, where consent is the only real condition. Partners should discuss and inform each other about each other's desires and needs in order to decide what they can try together. Some erotic games can feel like you're trusting your life to the other person, so it's important to feel comfortable and talk openly about your own limits.

It is also a good idea to set a "safe word" together, to be used when necessary to indicate to the other person that you want to stop the session immediately. Choose one that is easy to remember, but not too common to avoid saying it unintentionally.

Thus, the use of any BDSM accessories must always be consensual. Some tools are more intense than others, such as full restraint kits, and may scare off beginners. Don't force yourself to try a practice you find intimidating, only your desires should guide you.

Bondage tape offers an exciting experience for two, but without the need for sophisticated and cumbersome facilities. Specialized tape is especially suitable for beginners, as it is very simple to use.

How to use bondage tape?

The bondage tape is an adhesive tape that attaches naturally to the skin, without sticking to it. This makes it possible to remove it without hurting yourself, and without pulling on the hair. The tape attaches to itself and contains no glue, which makes it very easy and pleasant to use.

It is very flexible, yet it completely restrains the person being tied: you just have to pass the tape several times around the ankles or wrists. Be careful not to tighten it too much to preserve blood circulation.

Cut the desired length with scissors, and free your subject by cutting his or her ties.

Some models are reusable, you will just have to rewind the tape on itself to use it again. The majority of bondage tapes are between 5 and 20 meters long, which is more than enough for several sessions.

Being immobilized or deprived of one of your senses can easily trigger intense and uncontrollable pleasure, sometimes leading to orgasm. The accessories to use depend on the preferences of each person, many brands and manufacturers offer a wide variety of tools that you can test to discover your tastes: handcuffs, SM collars, masks and headbands, restraint kits...

Staying tuned to your partner and being ready to stop a situation that makes him uncomfortable physically or mentally is the guarantee of a successful and pleasant bondage session. By letting himself immobilized, he entrusts you his body: take care of it and respect its limits, at the risk of losing his confidence definitively.

The adhesive tape of bondage is used in the same way as a roll of tape. But contrary to the brown tape of construction site, the bondage tape does not leave traces and does not stick. Very resistant, it allows to immobilize completely its submissive while gently. As for the shibari, its practice combines patience and creativity and constitutes an exciting preliminary. It is an excellent way to learn about bondage without hurting yourself.

Tying someone with bondage tape requires a little method, especially to avoid the tape to fold on itself. Then try to make a gag, a blindfold, pass it on the breasts or pubic, fix the hands and legs of your subject or tie him to a chair, a bed ... Let your imagination guide you, keeping in mind the desires of your partner.

Any movement will then be impossible for him, especially if you have done several rounds. The material is elastic and flexible, but immobilizes enough to really constrain your lover. Its resistance allows to use it during more muscular submission sessions, for experienced people or professionals.

The bondage tape is most often used to bind. Tying two wrists, an ankle to a bedpost, or two knees together is very simple and quite accessible to beginners. No need for knots like with shibari and ropes, just roll the tape flat.

Several other uses exist, for example

The gag

The bondage tape does not stick to the hair, so it can be passed around the head over the mouth to prevent the immobilized person from speaking. Be careful to leave the nostrils clear so that the person can breathe!

Clothing

Making clothes with bondage tape requires a little practice and a lot of imagination. A nipple cover, a band on the chest, a skirt, a complete outfit, everything is possible. The PVC gives a fetish look that will please the lovers of sexy clothes and lingerie.

The advantages of bondage tape

Perfect for beginners, bondage tape is both flexible and strong. It can be used to enhance breasts or buttocks, and if it takes a lot of strength to break it, it is however not recommended to use it for suspension. For this use, prefer specialized restraint kits or shibari ropes.

In addition to not sticking to the skin, the hair or the hairs, the bondage tape is quite cheap. It allows to initiate oneself to the pleasures of bondage without the disadvantages of the rope. It is also safe to use, just avoid tightening too much and compressing the throat.

Finally, the bondage tape can be stored discreetly and you can recycle your roll by using it for DIY.

If the initiation to SM awakens in you the expected sensations, why not let yourself be tempted by more athletic practices? Many BDSM accessories exist to satisfy the different profiles of amateurs. From spanking tools to constraint and suspension kits, you are bound to find what you are looking for in specialized stores.