Ready-made kits composed of a harness and a dildo

What is a strap-on dildo?

The strap-on dildo is a dildo attached to a dildo harness, designed to penetrate one's sexual partner, whether vaginally, anally or orally. It is attached to the belt, at the level of the penis, but it can also be used elsewhere for lovers of new sensations and atypical positions. The harness, on the other hand, allows the dildo to be held in place, and to imitate the appearance of a penis as well as the experience of owning one.

Who is the strap-on for?

When the strap-on is used by a woman to penetrate a man, it is called"pegging". This fantasized practice is becoming more and more popular and allows to reverse the roles in a couple, or to put a foot in the BDSM culture. The interest of pegging, apart from the role change, is to allow a woman to offer a different pleasure to her partner by using her own body. The movements of the pelvis, the loins, the riding or the feeling of dominating by the penetration are so many parameters which attract more and more duos.
It is also possible to use this harness sextoy between women in a homosexual relationship, to enjoy the sensation of penetration without it being performed by a man. The dildo belt is also useful for men experiencing erectile dysfunction, or who are not satisfied with the size of their penis. Unlike a girdle that increases the size of the sex, the dildo belt can be introduced in a role play.

What is a dildo belt kit made of?

In a dildo belt kit, there are at least three parts: a dildo, a harness, and the ring. The dildo varies in material, size or shape, but it is the main point of the strap-on. The harness, as for him, can be conceived in belt with straps or in panties, even to be non-existent for the harnesses of the type bendable strap on or dildo share It is generally provided with a doubled part to avoid the bruises to the carrier, and adjusts itself the major part of the time to adapt itself to all the morphologies. Finally, the ring is the part that consolidates the dildo and the dildo harness together. In most cases, it is an O in which the dildo is inserted, but sometimes another system is used; for example, to quickly change the dildo without having to remove everything, or to fix the sextoy more rigorously.
But the dildo belt kit can contain other accessories as well. There can be an internal dildo integrated with another ring, a classic anal plug or inflatable plugs. In the case of vibrating belt dildos, you can also expect to find a remote control in the belt dildo kit. Finally, for the more versatile models, a belt dildo kit can contain a strap-on harness with three removable dildos, two of which are internal for the pleasure of each partner.

How to use a dildo belt kit

At first glance, using a dildo belt kit can be scary, especially when it's your first time. It's full of straps, harnesses, dildos, eyelets and rings, and you have to insert the right sextoy. But rest assured, because it's not as impressive as it sounds. In fact, dildo harnesses are designed not to break the sexual momentum and are very easy to put on. Most fit like a panty, and some like a belt. It may be advisable to wear it once before the act to understand how to put it on, and then to adjust the straps to your size.

As for preparation, put on the dildo harness before attaching the sextoy: it's easier than the other way around. Then simply slide the dildo into the O-ring, with a little lube if necessary. In the case of a large dildo or one with visible testicles, it is advisable to pass the toy before putting on the harness. After that, simply adjust and check that everything is in place.

Guide to choosing a dildo belt kit

Which model to select for your dildo belt? How many straps to put on her harness, how many dildos to insert, and what materials for the sextoy? Discover the different dildo belt kits that exist.

The different harnesses for dildos

There are different types: with two straps, like a thong, so to be worn around the waist and legs. This is the most simplistic format, which sometimes displeases because of the position of the straps. To remedy this, either choose a leather or latex strap-on harness, or choose a three-strap dildo harness. The latter also has a strap that goes around the waist, but the other two each go over a leg instead of between the buttocks like a thong. This makes it more comfortable and also gives the dildo more stability.
The harness can also be in the form of panties, underwear of any kind, fine lingerie or a complete erotic garment.

The ideal material for a dildo belt and harness.

As far as the dildo itself is concerned, the choice of material is the same as for a classic sextoy. Silicone is preferred for realistic shapes and red, black or another color latex for a bondage or fetish aspect. PVC, glass or ceramic are other common and practical materials, although glass tends to be very fragile and a bit heavy to hold well. For role-playing or staging, opt for a soft dildo to keep in your underwear and pull out when needed.
As for the harness, it's best to avoid rough and irritating materials, and turn to leather. Whether smooth or rough, leather sits well against the skin, does not stretch and feels great on the skin. Nylon can be a good compromise for economy and comfort, although it is not as soft as leather. When it comes to underwear harnesses, however, there is nothing to prevent you from choosing a latex harness panty for elasticity and a good hold on the dildo.

What size to choose, for the dildo as well as the harness?

To avoid unpleasant surprises, always choose a harness with adjustable straps. This way, you can exchange it with your partner without any problem and it will always fit your body. Especially since it only needs to be too small to cut off circulation or irritate. If it's too big, there will be too much play, and you'll lose efficiency, precision and control.

As for the size of the dildo, it depends only on your taste and that of your partner. One chooses the size of the dildo(s) to be inserted, and the other selects what they would like to receive. A large size for vaginal penetration is not a problem, but it is better to choose a small size, or at least a smaller diameter, for anal penetration.

Models of belted dildos

Because there is not only one way to practice pegging or to use a strap-on, many models are on the market to suit all customers, whether they are BDSM or Fetish enthusiasts. Some have even been specially designed to massage the prostate or stimulate the G-spot of the woman, thanks to their curved shape.

One, two, three dildos...

There are three main categories of dildo belt kits:

• the double dildo, with one for the wearer's vagina ,
• the double dildo, including an anal plug for the wearer,
• and the dildo belt with two dildos attached for double penetration.

Of course, there are also versions that come with three dildos, including a sextoy for the partner, a toy for the wearer's vagina, and an anal plug for her.

Vibrating belt dildos

More dynamic, they come with a remote control to vibrate inside your partner, as well as inside you. These vibrating belt dildos take sex to an even higher level.

Interchangeable belt dildos

The great thing about the O-ring harness is that you can simply select compatible dildos. Whether it's changing the ring or getting a dildo with a wider base, as long as they're compatible, then you'll be able to swap out your toys while keeping the same harness. Alternatively, the Vac-U-Lock system allows you to fit various dildos on the same rod, but they must be from the same brand.

The strapless

If strap-on refers to a dildo harness, then strapless is a belt dildo without a harness, such as the bendable strap-on or the share dildo. It is actually a sextoy with two tips that holds in the carrier by the strength of its pelvic muscles. It is therefore recommended for pegging. However, if you can't get it right the first time, you can always build up the muscles in this area with Kegel exercises before you start.

Precautions for use

There are no more risks with a belt dildo than with any other dildo. However, it is good to remember the basics. To begin with, always lubricate the dildo thoroughly. Since it's not a part of your body, you may not feel that your partner needs lubrication, so be prepared for that. Next, go slowly, especially when pegging. Indeed, a man or woman may feel vulnerable to the dildo belt, or even while wearing it. Listen to each other, communicate and progress together gently. And even more so if you are a woman who penetrates your companion: the fact that you are not used to performing these movements, in addition to using your partner's anal way, should prompt you to be forward thinking and careful. Finally, if you change partners, remember to clean your toys and use a condom.